by ED MERRISON Balance is a buzzword in wine, a sacred virtue all aspire to. But few know the meaning of balance like Alecia Moore. A performing artist, songwriter, mother, and winemaker: all of these require delicate and constant balance. The contemplative yin to the fan-crazed yang of stadium rock is a 25-acre vineyard in Santa Barbara County, California. In a sense, with Alecia’s Two Wolves wines - which make their Australian debut this month- a circle is complete, too. It was on these shores…